Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Here you come again

Ever have that one that keeps coming back to take the love you have to give only to leave you feeling used or like a toilet? Well, you have the right to tell them NO! But what is it that holds us in allowing them to repeat the abuse. It feels good, yes, but only while they are there. When they leave we tend to continue the self inflicted abuse by feeling bad about giving in.

Dolly Parton knows a little about this. Listen to the lyrics of this song. And if you can relate, then exchange the lyrics with "and wrap my little heart around your MIDDLE finger." because that we what we allow when we let people use us.

So don't get wrapped up in that 15 minutes (if he lasts that long) of sex. Hold out for what you truly deserve; a lifetime of love and bliss with someone who feels mutually the same for you.


Cat Chat With Caren And Cody said...

where were you when I was in my 30s and 40s? :)

I was beyond stupid then!

Kat Smith said...

Hi Caren, Thanks but it is never too late to learn, right? I am completing my doctorate at 51, so we are learning together ;-)